The Relationship Of Mother And Daughter Children, as they become adults, become more appreciative of their parents. In The Joy Luck Club, the attitudes of four daughters toward their mothers change as the girls mature and come to realize that their mothers aren't so different after all. It is not just part of Chineese Culture, but every culture that parents and children do have difficulty understanding each other. We call this difference “generation gap” and …showed first 75 words of 2284 total…

…showed last 75 words of 2284 total…different from them after all. They finally understood and respected their traditional Chinese mothers. In America, it is common to take mothers for granted and reject the advice they try to give. Generally, their attempt to give advice is considered as an intrusion into our lives and our privacy. In The Joy Luck Club, Amy Tan tries to get the reader to take a step back and see the good intentions behind our mother's actions.